Finding Strength in the Lyrics

Usher’s “Good Good” and My Journey Through Divorce

This morning, as I drove to work, Usher’s song “Good Good” played on the radio, and the lyrics hit me harder than usual. The line, “I hate that we didn’t make it to forever,” resonated deeply, stirring a whirlwind of emotions. While this song has always been powerful, today it spoke to me differently. I felt the weight of the words more intensely, likely because of where I am in my journey of strength and healing after divorce.

Reflecting on Broken Dreams

Working on my blog, Single Not Divorced, has made me more attuned to the process of rebuilding and rediscovering my strength after divorce. Usher’s lyrics about “not making it to forever” brought memories of my own relationship back to the surface—the dreams that never came to fruition and the promises that were left unfulfilled. Divorce, much like that line in the song, is a poignant reminder of the loss we endure—not just of a partner, but of the future we once imagined. It’s important to reflect on these moments as part of our healing journey.

The Healing Power of Nature

To clear my mind, I took a walk around the pond at work. There’s something about walking in nature that brings peace amidst the chaos. As I strolled along the trail, my thoughts turned to the Single Not Divorced community. We’ve all experienced the pain of divorce and the unique loneliness that follows. But in these moments, we also find strength—not only within ourselves but also in the community of women who support and empower one another. Healing, Love, and New Beginnings: Are You Truly Ready? Together, we reflect on our past, learn from our experiences, and grow stronger each day.

Divorce: A Unique Heartbreak

Divorce is a different kind of heartbreak. It’s not just the end of a relationship—it’s the shattering of a life you once believed in. The loneliness that follows can be overwhelming, especially when songs like “Good Good” bring those feelings back, reminding us of what we’ve lost. The song echoed the promises that would never be fulfilled, but it also stirred something else within me—a sense of empowerment. Divorce is painful, but it also provides the opportunity to reflect on where we’ve been and to recognize the inner strength we’ve developed.

Strength in Community and Resilience

As I reflected during my walk, I thought about the strength and resilience of the women in our community. Each of us has faced the darkness of divorce, yet we’ve found ways to empower ourselves and each other. The journey may not be easy, but we’ve learned to stand strong, to reflect on our past, and to rise from the ashes. Divorce may break our hearts, but it also shapes us into stronger, more independent women. Every step forward is a testament to our strength and commitment to creating better futures for ourselves.

The Importance of Acknowledging Your Feelings

Listening to Usher’s song reminded me that part of the healing process is accepting the feelings that arise. It’s okay to mourn the loss of a relationship and the future you envisioned. These emotions are natural, and acknowledging them is a crucial step in healing. But, as we reflect on these feelings, it’s also important to celebrate the strength we’ve gained and how far we’ve come. Each time we face our emotions, we become more resilient, more empowered.

Creating Your Own Forever

As I continued my walk around the pond, I was struck by the peace and tranquility of the moment. These quiet spaces allow us to heal and remind us that while we didn’t make it to forever with our ex-partners, we have the power to create a new and fulfilling future for ourselves. This is where our strength lies—in the ability to rise from the ashes, to reflect on our past without letting it define us, and to move forward with a sense of hope and empowerment.

Questions for You:

• Have you ever had a song that brought back strong emotions related to your divorce or past relationships? How did it make you feel?
• What are some of the ways you find peace and healing in your daily life?
• How has your journey through divorce shaped your identity and future plans?

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